Tag Archives: Breakthrough to Partnership

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Do you have an Ex filter?

Have you ever been on a date and noticed you were comparing the man sitting across from you to your Ex? In this video I break down what an Ex filter looks like. How it is sabotaging your chances of finding your person. And worst of all, how it is keeping your perfect match from […]

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Someone has to pay…

Someone has to pay…😟 Can you relate to this? Many of the women I talk with feel like they have to resolve the pain and disappointment of their past relationships before they can move forward into a new relationship? There is this horrible myth floating around that someone has to pay for any and all […]


Morning Dread

How many times has this happened to you? You’re getting ready for work in the morning and noticed a feeling of dread creep over you? It’s not your work you are dreading, it’s that other thing… You know what I’m talking about. That moment when your co-workers ask you what you did last night or […]

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I just got off the phone with yet another woman who seems to have it all together.  She is a physician with a successful practice.  Well respected in her community.  Has great friends and feels good about her health and her appearance.  Sadly she is trapped in FOMO-FOCA and, as great as her life looks […]

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Leaning back to attract a man is a lie…

Have you ever been told that if you want to find a quality man…you need to lean back and let him lead? Let me save you some hard work and aggravation. For more than 10 years now this approach has been in vogue.  Drop the hankie.  Hint but don’t be direct. Or wait no matter […]

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Yes, I said it…

Have you ever been told that the less needs you have the more likely a man is to want to marry you? Do you believe that your needs will make you appear needy to a man, and no man wants a needy woman? Let me clarify this for you, from a male perspective. For generations […]

It’s tick, tick, ticking…

Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick… Do you hear it? It’s the time bomb that’s sitting in the middle of the room every time you and your man get together. The thing that is annoying you or insulting you or invalidating you, and you’re terrified of mentioning it to him for fear it will piss him […]

Don’t waste your time…

Do you ever wake up dreading the thought of going out there again?  You know what I mean. You want to be in a great relationship where you feel loved and adored, but you just don’t have the energy to try any more. You already know what’s going to happen. You’ll end up attracting guys […]

The worst place on the planet to live!

Remember that time you were in a relationship that you knew wasn’t working but you still couldn’t seem to walk away. Things started out great.  He was attentive, passionate, interesting AND interested.  This was “The One.” You could see a future with this guy. Then something happened.  It seemed like he just got lazy. He […]