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It’s tick, tick, ticking…

Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick… Do you hear it? It’s the time bomb that’s sitting in the middle of the room every time you and your man get together. The thing that is annoying you or insulting you or invalidating you, and you’re terrified of mentioning it to him for fear it will piss him […]

Don’t waste your time…

Do you ever wake up dreading the thought of going out there again?  You know what I mean. You want to be in a great relationship where you feel loved and adored, but you just don’t have the energy to try any more. You already know what’s going to happen. You’ll end up attracting guys […]

The worst place on the planet to live!

Remember that time you were in a relationship that you knew wasn’t working but you still couldn’t seem to walk away. Things started out great.  He was attentive, passionate, interesting AND interested.  This was “The One.” You could see a future with this guy. Then something happened.  It seemed like he just got lazy. He […]

This can be FATAL for a relationship…

Have you ever been dating someone and wondered “Why doesn’t he text or call me more?” When you first met he was so good at communicating.  Texting to say good morning or to say he was thinking of you.  Calling to ask about your day.  But then that went away. You’d really like to hear […]

Throwing Out My Favorite Shirt

Today I threw out my favorite shirt. Said thank you for the good times and released it. It may sound dramatic, but this shirt meant a lot to me. I bought it at the Boulder Bookstore shortly after moving to Boulder in 1996. It was not only my favorite color – orange. But what it said […]

Normal is boring…

“Sometimes I pretend to be normal, but it gets boring.  So I go back to being me.” – Unknown I love this quote because it is so true. If you’re like me, you grew up in a world where you were encouraged to be normal, just fit in and comply.  But if you think about it, […]

You’re only 1 step away from getting what you want…

There is an exercise they do at high performance driving schools that will blow your mind. The instructor sets up an obstacle course with orange traffic cones and the student drives through the course with the instructor sitting next giving perfect instructions of “turn left, turn right, turn left” so the driver will not hit any cones. […]

3 Steps to Make Room for Love Now

Have you ever had an article of clothing that you did not want to get rid of even though it no longer looked good or fit you?  Maybe there were even holes worn in it?  It really does not serve you anymore but you are so attached to it that you resist letting it go. […]

Attracting Love

We all know that love is everywhere.  It is in the trees, the flowers, children, food, family, friends, the weather, our questions and our answers. And you have probably heard that love comes from within and it’s true.  Love is like a magnet.  So until we magnetize ourselves with love for who we are, where […]

10 Things Men Don’t Really Care About

James Michael Sama lets women in on 10 things they can stop worrying about, because frankly, men don’t give a damn. (No matter what you believe about this list, please, please click on (more) for #10 and take it to heart.  I know that voice in your head makes it hard to believe, but it is true […]