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Do you have an Ex filter?

Have you ever been on a date and noticed you were comparing the man sitting across from you to your Ex? In this video I break down what an Ex filter looks like. How it is sabotaging your chances of finding your person. And worst of all, how it is keeping your perfect match from […]

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He needs to say “I love you” first…

Have you ever heard that whoever cares the least in a relationship has the most power? Let me save you some suffering and aggravation… Women have been trying this strategy for years.  Holding back on their feelings and waiting for him to go first.  Convinced that playing it cool and hiding how you really feel […]

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Are You Craving More Support?

Are you tired of being told that if you are meant to have a lasting partnership it will just happen?  You shouldn’t need help.  Be patient. Wouldn’t it be nice to have more support than, “Just be patient” or “It will happen when it’s supposed to happen” Let me save you some major frustration and share a secret with […]

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Someone has to pay…

Someone has to pay…😟 Can you relate to this? Many of the women I talk with feel like they have to resolve the pain and disappointment of their past relationships before they can move forward into a new relationship? There is this horrible myth floating around that someone has to pay for any and all […]

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Morning Dread

How many times has this happened to you? You’re getting ready for work in the morning and noticed a feeling of dread creep over you? It’s not your work you are dreading, it’s that other thing… You know what I’m talking about. That moment when your co-workers ask you what you did last night or […]

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FOMO-FOCA

I just got off the phone with yet another woman who seems to have it all together.  She is a physician with a successful practice.  Well respected in her community.  Has great friends and feels good about her health and her appearance.  Sadly she is trapped in FOMO-FOCA and, as great as her life looks […]

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Leaning back to attract a man is a lie…

Have you ever been told that if you want to find a quality man…you need to lean back and let him lead? Let me save you some hard work and aggravation. For more than 10 years now this approach has been in vogue.  Drop the hankie.  Hint but don’t be direct. Or wait no matter […]

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Yes, I said it…

Have you ever been told that the less needs you have the more likely a man is to want to marry you? Do you believe that your needs will make you appear needy to a man, and no man wants a needy woman? Let me clarify this for you, from a male perspective. For generations […]